Bar hopping or bed hopping??

One fine warm night in Dubai 2 of my friends and myself decide to go for dinner and dancing. The plan which took over a year to execute was well worth the wait and definitely fun. Even in my high state of mind from amazing Italian food, ear-blasting house music and a frenzy of cocktails i could not help but notice all the eager looking men and women in the room. Observations: men scanning the room like hawks, looking too eager and obviously going slow on the drinks to sustain the ability to walk out of the disc and perhaps if lucky supporting an overtly drunk lady in their arms. The women...scantily dressed, excessive makeup, shoes with heels that threatened their each step and drinking like the world ends tomorrow....hoping to meet their knight in shining armor.....or maybe not???I couldn’t help but wonder that people who would stay in that room would be there for the single reason of being hooked up/getting laid/free sex or whatever you may call it.......its all about sex isn’t it?! What else can it be? Some people go for the music but those wouldn’t get pissed drunk, some go to get drunk but with the safety net of a friend(in my case 2) or a safe male companion but what about the rest of them?! Am I being too judgmental here or is it really a sad thing to do or a sad situation to be in?? Is it being too desperate and is that the last resort?? Or am I being really critical just because i do not have the same worries of having to find someone or be held or just have some sex now and again??

Wedding or Dating?

Every girl has the much awaited dream of having the perfect dress at the perfect wedding with the perfect guy....but are weddings just over rated in a girl's head?
I wonder where the tradition began of when a girl would have to leave her home and come and live in with her husband and his family. Not only do you feel like an uprooted tree but the emotional baggage that a wedding brings along is not a piece of cake! But to be fair in most relationships it is usually the girl who is more eager to get married, where as the male species have been trying to escape us women from having to 'pop' the question for eternity. So in most cases it us women who want to get married and have a family and all the moments followed by it yet we complain of how cumbersome it is to move out and leave our family and accept a group of strangers who now become 'my family'. Dosent dating just sound a lot more fun? But dating is just not good enough either is it....we want more because we want to feel loved and belonged and want to come home to a waiting husband and a family and special moments that only can be shared with a husband.....because a boy friend just wouldnt understand...
Arent we women just complicated ...